Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Easter Weekend

For the first time in forever I think I didn't have the traditional Easter with my daughters and their families.  Instead I went to Northern Virginia to visit Linda and Albert.  Now that we are both retired, I went up Friday.  It was a cool but beautiful day and we enjoyed the beautiful spring day in her backyard, lying in the huge hammock she purchased upon her retirement and just talking about everything imaginable.  We did some "tweaking" to our Grand Canyon trip plans, adding on a day at Yellowstone.  Albert came home from work around 5:00 so we fixed dinner and just enjoyed good conversation while dining.

Saturday we were quite simply lazy.  We did get out to an
 outdoor sporting store where I purchased a hat for the river trip on the Colorado River.  Linda drove to the Mall and let me drive her new vehicle home, the one we'll be traveling in on our retirement trip.  (Ford Edge.)  Saturday night we were in bed EARLY to get up at 5:00 a.m. Sunday for an 8:00 Easter service at the 
National Cathedral in Washington, DC.  A magnificent piece of architecture ... beautiful stained windows, high ceilings, etc.  The choir's voice as they entered the cathedral sent chills up your spine, the voices echoing from the high ceilings, along with the magnificent sounds of the organ.  The pageantry of the procession was beautiful.  Although the Episcopal church has changed so much over the years the "pomp and circumstance" of the service was inspiring.  

Afterward we went to a late brunch ... lots of good food.  I was stuffed.  Even the Easter bunny was there and gave us a plastic egg filled with chocolates. 

I did miss the time with my family but how often does one get to attend Easter service at the National Cathedral? 

Wednesday, April 8, 2009

Great Wolf Lodge

This past weekend I drove about 470 miles to and 470 miles from Cincinnati OH to spend the weekend with Alicia and Caroline (my two nieces) and Janet (my sister-in-law) as well as Austin and Aiden (great nephews) and Emily (newest great niece). Alicia and Caroline had invited me to spend the weekend with them at the Great Wolf Lodge in Mason, OH (just outside Cincinnati).

It was a really nice weekend. It was so good seeing everyone and meeting Emily for the first time. I didn't get in the water but just enjoyed the time at "poolside" taking pictures and taking it easy.

The trip there was long; it rained the entire trip. I made quite a few stops as my back was hurting. I had planned to return Monday but the forecast changed from really nice weather on Saturday to predicted SNOW showers and snow in the West Virginia mountains Monday, so I returned home Sunday, also a beautiful day. I didn't relish the thought of traveling in the rain again. Although a nice day weather wise the trip back also was long.

My cousin Cynthia lives in Cincinnati and came to the Lodge Saturday afternoon to visit awhile. It was good seeing her as it had been several years.
Saturday night we went to the Outback for dinner ... goooood food.

The boys were active but well behaved the entire weekend.

Sunday morning on my way out of Cincinnati I phoned some friends (Rita and Jim) I had met in St. Louis back in 1974 who since have moved to Cincinnati. They befriended me in a way I will never forget. Cecil and I divorced in June 1975 and I left St. Louis. Rita and Jim were our neighbors in the apartment building we lived in but had purchased a home and moved out of the apartments. I phoned Rita to let her know I was leaving St. Louis. About a week after returning to Charlottesville I received an envelope from them with a check for $500 (this was 1974!) and a note saying they knew I didn't have anything and wanted to help, that if I was ever able to repay that would be fine but not to worry about it. Some years ago I sent them a check for $300. When I retired in December I received a lump sum in addition to my monthly retirement check so finally had some extra money and wanted to repay them the remaining $200 and tell them what a blessing they had been to me at a difficult time. Rita and I both cried.
The weekend was a very nice one.


Wednesday, April 1, 2009

Wednesday, April 1, 2009


Today is my friend Linda's first official day of retirement. We've known each other since 1966 when we met in Norfolk, VA. Our husbands were in the Navy, we both worked at Virginia National Bank, and lived in the same apartment complex. I'd see her get on the bus every day as we took the 40 minute ride downtown and home in the evenings. One day my husband picked me up from work and I saw her walking toward the bus stop. I rolled the window down and asked if she'd like a ride. That was the beginning of a friendship that has spanned several decades.

There have been years that we didn't have contact with each other. But in recent years the friendship has picked up again. We both went through a divorce. She remarried but I've remained single. That marriage too has had its ups and downs but she said she would not go through a second divorce. I think after all these years the marriage is now better. Both sons are now grown and on their own and perhaps that is why.

Anyway ... Linda and I are now both retired and planning a "retirement trip" to the Grand Canyon and places in between. I've been excited about the trip for some time (years even I think!). This morning we spoke and I think she is now getting that same excitement. She wants me to come up to Northern Virginia Easter weekend to look more seriously at trip plans AND to attend services at the National Cathedral. THAT would awesome. My one regret is I won't have my normal Easter meal with my family. We don't all get together that often anymore it seems.

Our plans are to leave Virginia on June 12, spend the night in Boone, NC and visit her elderly aunt. From there it's on to Nashville (Grand Ole Opry) and Memphis, TN (Graceland). We plan to spend a night in Mt. Pleasant, TX and have dinner with my friend Michael. From there to Dallas, TX where we'll spend the night with my second cousin Michael and his wife Tina and family. Then to Oklahoma City, OK for two nights and visit the Federal Building memorial as well as the Cowboy Museum. There will be stops from there until we reach the Grand Canyon but we plan to be at the Grand Canyon four nights, taking a smooth water river trip and enjoy beautiful sunrises and sunsets while there. On to Las Vegas from there (have tickets to see Donny and Marie) and visit the Hoover Dam.

That part of the trip is pretty set but the second leg isn't quite as set in stone. Most likely stops at Bryce Canyon and Zion National Park, perhaps Yellowstone, then on to Mount Rushmore, Crazy Horse, Badlands, Chicago, Omaha NE, Cincinnati, OH and from there home.

I'm exhausted just thinking about it, yet excited and full of energy, ready to embark on our adventure.